How To Truly Believe That You Are Beautiful

How To Truly Believe That You Are Beautiful

What do you say to yourself when you look in the mirror?

What do you say in your head about your face with no makeup, your body with no clothes, your hair after a long sweaty day?

Do you pull at the wrinkles in despair, poke at the “extras” in disgust, or thickly cover all the imperfections?

You are not alone.


It doesn’t take a very thorough examination to realize that womanhood is not what it was meant to be. In general, women can be some of the most hateful and conniving of all God’s creations. Even taking a quick stroll through a celebrity’s social media account will reveal some of the most heartless and cruel comments spewed BY women at another woman. It’s sickening and heat-breaking all at the same time.

I will be honest. I have NOT always loved other women well.

I’ve never felt like I fit into many groups of women, let alone embraced many (if any) of what I felt were the stereotypical “girl” characteristics. I don’t cook. Hate to sew. I would rather punch stuff or do burpees than curl my hair. My idea of a good time usually involves dirt (possibly lots of it) messy animals, and very loud laughter. I have a handshake that catches most grown men off guard. I am very aggressive and confident by nature. For a LONG time I really didn’t like being a girl. I knew God made me a girl for a reason, so I tried not to complain too much, but I still wasn’t thrilled.

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Clean Skincare Product Roundup Review

Clean Skincare Product Roundup Review

Just google “natural face wash”, “natural skincare” “Natural____” and the results are overwhelming.

Where do you start? What actually works? What products have legitimately clean ingredients in them?

Feeling a little overwhelmed? Been there. I feel ya.

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7 Tips to Reduce Allergies Naturally

7 Tips to Reduce Allergies Naturally

Warm weather is upon us, my friends. And with it comes all the pollen, dust, weeds, and everyone’s favorite: seasonal allergies.

I remember a time when I was quite literally on 2 or 3 different allergy medicines at a time. They were prescribed by my very well-meaning and beloved family doctor. To be quite honest, they DID help me feel better. We did the best we knew how to at the time.

Fast forward several years, and this kid is on zero prescription meds and zero over the counter allergy pills. None. Zip. Zero. Zilch.

What changed?

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10 Tips For Thriving After Graduation

10 Tips For Thriving After Graduation

We just finished off a VERY busy graduation season over here. In fact, this year several of “my girls” from youth group are graduated from high school.

I remember being so stressed before and after I graduated high school.

What was I going to do next????

I swear, everyone AND their Mama and their Mama’s Mama asked me “well what are you going to do now?”

I remember thinking, “I DON’T KNOWWWWWWW. But would you please stop asking me”

Of course, I couldn’t admit that very much publically.

What WAS I going to do now? Now I had a choice? No one was telling me exactly what to do. What if I made the WRONG choice? What if I went to the WRONG college? What if I hated it? What if I sucked at it? What if I couldn’t make any friends??? What if…..?

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7 Lies About Motherhood

7 Lies About Motherhood

I am not a “baby person” just like I am not your typical “dog person”. I like my baby and other select babies just like I like my dogs and other select dogs. So please don’t be offended if I don’t ask to hold your tiny humans or pet your canine.


We intentionally waited 6 years to start having babies. We very much believe that was God’s timing for us and thus were Spirit-led in our decision to start having children.


To be totally honest, my heart was not ready to have children when we first got married. So much of what I had seen portrayed about motherhood by my generation deterred me.  But I KNEW deep down in my soul that God designed motherhood to be GOOD, even glorious really, so if I was going to have what HE designed rather than settling for what I saw around me, I had to renew my mind and confront the lies.

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How to Find Good Friends

How to Find Good Friends

I am not talking about qualities that qualify someone to receive your kindness. As Christ followers, we should be kind to all. But we should be wise and use discretion in who we allow to be our good FRIENDS: people that we allow to know intimate or even semi-intimate details of our lives. People that we actually spend serious time with and for. We need discretion in this area for two main reasons: One, because we are called to “guard our hearts above all else, for from it flows the wellspring of life.” Prov 4:23. And two because friendships are something that should be cultivated, not just something that happens.

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How to Be a Good Friend

How to Be a Good Friend

Good friendships are a thing to treasure. They are NOT a “dime a dozen” thing, and that’s really ok! We don’t really have time to spend an hour on the phone with 97 different people every week.

One of the most common questions that I hear regarding friendship is “how to find good friends” and we will cover that. But here is the biggest factor in finding good friends:

 

To find a good friend, you first have to BE a good friend.

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Why Do You Need Friends?

Why Do You Need Friends?

"A friend loves at all times and a brother is born for adversity." Proverbs 17:17

 

I know this verse by heart, (although I always have to look up where it is found exactly) partly because my Jesus lovin’ Mama made us read a proverb a day out loud on the way to school growing up. And partly because good friendships and close family relationships have ALWAYS been important to me. 

 

I remember praying for godly friends even from a young age. I specifically prayed that God would “bless, create, and heal the relationships that He wanted me to have.”

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How to Lead Without Being Bossy Part 2

How to Lead Without Being Bossy Part 2
“He who thinks he leads, and has no one following, is really only taking a walk.”
– (adapted from a John Maxwell quote)

 

This is truly one of my favorite leadership quotes ever. As someone who can tend to get pretty bossy easily, I often have to double check myself to see if anyone is actually following my leadership or if I am just out on a walk by my lonesome.

Just because you or I have been appointed to lead or boss people around does NOT mean that they will want to follow us.

So here are some tips about leading and influencing people. I firmly believe that as a Christian we are all called to lead others to Christ in some capacity. And if you haven’t yet read part one of this, go check it out. It will help all of this make more sense and benefit you more.  

1.   Your heart should ultimately be to serve.

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How to Lead Without Being Bossy Part 1

How to Lead Without Being Bossy Part 1

Having “leadership skills” instead of just being plain ol’ bossy has not always been my forte (read: I occasionally still step into bossy pants mode accidentally)”. Being bossy comes REALLY naturally to me. I am the oldest. The oldest sibling, the oldest cousin, even one of the oldest of all my extended cousins. I was born bossy. For some of us, taking charge or feeling like a leader comes more naturally.

“If we are Christians, we are called to lead others to Christ. So we are all leaders.”
 ~Christine Caine.

Whether we FEEL like we have a knack for leadership is not the question. The question is: How can we best use our gifts to lead others to Christ, to make disciples of all. As a Christian, we are called to be leaders. Period. Taking the lead comes easily for me, but that doesn’t mean that I have always lead in the right direction, done it well, or don’t need to grow in my abilities. 

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